How to be a better lover: forbidden magic from my travels across the internet
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November 2020




I will spare you the details about how I know these things, but I will say that this knowledge is both hard-won and field-tested. I hope it proves useful to you!




Step 1: Better relationships


When it comes to improving relationships and communication, my go-to book is The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict by the Arbinger Institute.

Step 2: Know your territory


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Step 3: The good stuff


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